Jumat, 14 Januari 2011

There's No A Fake Person. There's A High Social Intelligence Person

HELL-O !!! My day was goin busy this week. Well I got a free time now then was feel like writing something here would be great idea to kill my time.

Yesterday i taught Math for Business as the request of the senate. We have a program to hold an additional class for some horrific subjects such as Accounting Principles, Management Accounting, Math for Business, Intermediate Accounting 1 and 2, and Advance Accounting 1 and 2. Last year I taught Accounting Principles as well when it still based on GAAP. But now I refused to hold that class cause I don't have IFRS basic.
Here's some photos of yesterday :




Thanks for clicking me anyway :)

Anyhoooowwww....
My upcoming final exam is on Monday 17th and everytime I think about that I need a time remote and skip those 2 weeks ahead. I’m not ready yet for that. I’ve been a lazy bastard this semester : did too much holidays, spent my scholarship at mall, roled as an epicure and all things a lady must to do !! But I, repentantly say, get myself 2 kg heavier than before. ..My cheeks is ready to blow up.

I don’t know why even tough I’m a lazy bastard I still got a good GPA at college…
1st semester : 3.74 over 4
2nd semester : 3.79 over 4
3rd semester : 3.24 over 4 (getting lower but I got a great parents here. No one nag on me)
4th semester : 3.6 over 4
5th semester : my midtest warned me to prepare for the worst :p

Friends keep asking me how could I get those GPA and got the scholarship as well ! They never saw me studying, even caught me sleeping when the class was going…

Was that a luck ?

I don’t think so……

For me, study hard isn’t a good idea for myself. I hate when I have to go to college library, sitting alone on the bench and freezing to death.

If I allowed to make a term of the way I study, I would say it as study smart.

Haters say it as “fake person” or “hypocrisy”, but Experts say it as “High Social Intelligence Person”. That’s what I’ve implemented to get what I want either in social life or others. I always learn someone’s character and gotta describe him/her only in 5 minutes in intial acquaintanceship to take control the circumstance. If I flopped, I should control myself not to show the real I am. I never show my card before they show me first.
I judge the book by its cover ? No. I mean, I am not alone, people does as well.

So what have I implemented with those theories above in my real life, at college in this case ?
One of my lecturer ever told me “If you wanted to graduate swiftly, study hard wasn’t a solution. You should study your lecturer’s character.”

If you caught those sentence literally, didn’t he mean that you should be a licker ? For me, the answer is hell no. People can guess easily whether he’s licking or not. Being a licker isn’t what a smart person does. So, what I’ve caught from the advice above was “You could win, even controlling everyone’s attention or feeling if you had something astonishing, mystifying to distinguish yourself with others…”

Then what are those astonishing mystifying thingies ? Well it’s not that cool, I put those words just to overrate :p

Nothing special, I do :
  1. Joining in college’s senate, since 2 years ago
This, damn help me out to get good links and expand my social circles. By joining in college’s organization, it allows me to meet with campus officials and I’m talking about the top level : Lecturers, Professors, and Rector. This is a great opportunity to show my existence over thousands student colleges in there.

  1. Reading books, comics, newspaper, advertisements, job vacancies, adult magazines, read everything !

Showing my existence with nothing inside my head is similar to suicide. God has bestowed us a superb sophisticated brain to be filled with billions useful and unuseful informations. So I love to enrich myself with many literatures even it brings me to hell bored. It helps me much to be in to many kind of conversations from many ages. And so to be involved in every discussion lifted by the lecturer in the class. I'm sure my lecturer really take into account every participation of the students in every discussion he presented. But when I couldn’t follow the conversations or discussions, I could be a good listener though.

  1. Putting lipstick on my lips

Every mankind in general, love to hear their grandeur being discussed and praised by others. But it’s not easy to do this if you don’t know how to do it properly. You think you’ve won your lecturer’s heart, your lecturer stamped “LICKER” on your forehead. Never use excessive words while u’re praising your lecture and don’t do it while the class is going

  1. Have another fascinating activities outside college


This damn help you much to get a plus value ! I do taekwondo and band, unusual things for a girl with scarf on her head :) . I think those 2 help me look (more) awesome. I got a chance to show it (cause I join in senate, not hard to get this chance) and the result was one of my lecture wants me to teach her kids taekwondo and my rector loves my piano playing :) .


  1. Smile even when u’re down

To every civitas academica : students, faculties, and staffs ! No doubt that a sincere smile is a great weapon to win everyone’s heart !

  1. Don’t you underestimate a chit chat

Chit chat is an art. An high social intelligence person can make a lil chit chat becomes a memorable chat. By asking how are you, how can I help you (although you don’t really wanna help them), you looking fabulous today (but I’m much more fabulous than you) will make them remind you as a kind-hearted person (lol). And again, I cant give you more suggestions cause I do it naturally….

7. Studying

 Okay. Now i'm in my lecture's heart. But I still got C for his/her subject. Then I still have to go to the library, sitting alone on the bench, and freezing to death.

8. Praying 

I do pray 5 times a day, read Qur'an and all. God works in His own way... We wanna win people's heart ?? Learn how to win God's heart !

Well, those all what I’ve done. But, I still couldn’t win some of my lecturer’s heart. No wonder coz they’re The Big Three in my college. At least, they would glance their eyes to me as they passed at me in hall and smile back at me in which only a few people could get this.




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